Every faith, every culture, every couple
Plan the wedding that looks like yours.
We believe weddings are unique, just like the couples bringing their personalities, families, food and lives together in their own way. That is why we make the planning simple however much wedding there is, so you can leave the stress with us and focus on enjoying all of it.
Free to start, and no card.
- Faith
- Sikh
- Culture
- Punjabi and British
What you get, all in one place
Two questions. Every wedding.
Most planners open by asking what colour your napkins are. We open by asking about you. Some couples bring two traditions, some bring one, some bring none and just want a brilliant party. Every one of those is a complete answer, and the plan gets built from it.
thirteen weeks later
Every event, on the right day, in the right place.
Give us your faith, your culture and a date, and the whole thing is laid out for you: every event on its own day, in its own place, with the tasks that belong to it. Then change the date, and all of it moves with you at once. Every event, every task, every deadline, in a single tap.
- Days, not one date, because most weddings are not one day
- Home, venue or place of worship marked on every single event
- Add, rename, re-order or delete anything. Move an event to another day, split a day in two, or join two days together
It is a head start, not a template. We build the first version so you are not staring at an empty page, and then every part of it is yours to change. Nothing is compulsory, and anything you delete stays deleted.
Build your plan, freeThursday 10 June
2 events · at home
Friday 11 June
2 events · home, then hall
Saturday 12 June
3 events · gurdwara, then hall
Some people come to everything. Some come to one thing.
Guests live in households, so a family gets one invitation and replies once. Each person sits on one side or the other, carries their own dietary and access needs, and is invited event by event. Whether that is four events or one, the list keeps up.
- Households with a name you recognise, one postal address and one reply for the whole family
- Sides, plus-ones and children, counted properly, because caterers charge differently for all three
- Dietary requirements and access needs, with room for the note that actually matters
- A separate invitation list per event, with its own head count for the venue and the kitchen
60 guests23 households4 children6 plus-ones
| Guest | Side | Needs | RSVP | Drinks | Ceremony | Breakfast | Party |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Ama Boateng’s group4 people · 12 Elm Road, Leeds LS7 · one invitation, one reply | |||||||
| Ama BoatengEllie’s godmother | Ellie’s side | No dairy | Coming | ||||
| Joseph BoatengAma’s plus-one | Ellie’s side | Gluten free | Coming | ||||
| Esi BoatengChild, age 6 | Ellie’s side | Nut allergyChildren’s menu | Coming | ||||
| Margaret Henderson1 person · 4 Sea View Terrace, Margate CT9 · Kate’s grandmother | |||||||
| Margaret HendersonKate’s nan | Kate’s side | Soft foodStep-free access, seat near a door | Coming | ||||
| Kate’s team at work6 people · invited to the evening only | |||||||
| Tom Whelanand Ana | Kate’s side | Vegan | Not replied | ||||
| Ravi SangheraUni | Ellie’s side | Vegetarian | Cannot come | ||||
One invitation per household
Ama’s group of four gets a single invitation to a single address, and a single private link to reply with. You are not chasing four people for one answer.
Counts that mean something
Drinks 22 · Ceremony 28 · Breakfast 28 · Party 60. Every number is the people actually invited to that event, and it moves as replies land.
A plan for every event. And a Plan B for the rain.
Seating is not one puzzle, it is one puzzle per event, and sometimes two. Build a layout for each of your events separately, name them, and share them with anyone, even people who are not on We Do. Keep a wet-weather version of each and switch which one is live the morning it actually rains.
- As many plans per event as you like, with one marked as the live one
- Name your tables the way you talk about them: Top table, Family, Work friends, Uni, Neighbours
- Round, long and square tables, each with its own capacity, rotation and colour
- Assign the exact seat, not just the table, so place cards and the running order write themselves
- One share link per plan, read only, for the venue and the caterer
Not seated yet
14 guests · drag onto a seat
Fills the empty seats from your guest list, keeping households together. Nobody you have already placed moves, and you can move anyone afterwards.
Family, round, seats 8
Every seat has a name on it, so the place cards print straight from here.
Everything you have saved, in one place, with the credit attached.
Save a photo straight from a vendor’s page and it keeps their name on it, so nobody has to ask who made that mandap. Keep one board per event, so the florist doing the mehndi is not looking at your reception. Share a board with a vendor and they see exactly what you mean.
- Save from any We Do vendor page, credit attached
- Upload your own photos, or paste a link and we fetch the picture
- One board per event, and a share link for the vendor doing that event
Vendors who have done your wedding before.
Your brief already knows your faiths, your cultures, your date and your numbers, so you are not typing it out for the ninth time. We match it to vendors who actually serve those weddings, and you decide which ones get to see it.
We take nothing from your vendors. So the good ones want to be here, and the price they quote you is the real price, not one inflated to pay a platform’s cut.
- Matched on faith, culture, place and budget, not on who paid for the top slot
- You send the enquiry. A vendor only sees your details once you choose them
- No commission, ever, on either side of the booking
Your brief
- Faith
- Sikh
- Culture
- Punjabi, British
- Where
- Leeds, LS7
- Dates
- 10 to 12 June 2027
- Guests
- 320 at the reception
- Budget
- £2,400 to £3,200
Three days of coverage. Two shooters on the Saturday, one on the Thursday and Friday. Someone who has worked in a gurdwara before and knows when to put the camera down.
No commission, ever.
We do not take a cut from Lotus Frames, so Lotus Frames has not added one to your quote. That is the whole arrangement, and it is why the suppliers worth having are happy to be listed here.
One thread per vendor. Every contract where you left it.
No more digging through two inboxes and a group chat to find the quote. Each vendor gets one thread. Their files and signed contracts live against the booking, and what you have paid and what is still due sits right underneath, in pounds.
- One thread per vendor, from first enquiry to the final invoice
- Contracts, quotes and invoices kept against the booking, not in your downloads folder
- Deposits and balances tracked, with the due date on your plan
Files on this booking
Payments
A website your guests can actually use.
Your own page on saidwedo.com, free, pulling straight from the plan you have already built. Pick a look, pick a colour, and it is live. Your guests get the day, the dress code and honest answers to the questions everyone asks, without ringing your mum to find out.
We met queuing for the wrong bus in Hyde Park, and Jaz talked for eleven stops. Nine years later, here we are.
Rose Sage Dusk Ink
Michael knocked, properly, with schnapps and his uncles, in June. Akosua’s father took his time about saying yes.
Garden Blush Amber
Four days, two families, one very patient caterer. Come for all of it or come for one of it, we are glad either way.
Ink Plum Forest
- Names and the dateYour own address, chosen by you, ready to put on the invitation.
- Our storyOne paragraph, or a timeline of the moments that got you here.
- The day, event by eventTimes, venues, arrival, dress code, and the running order if you want one.
- A door, if you want onePut a word on the invitation and only people who have it get in. Confetti when they do.
- Questions everyone asksChildren, gifts, what to wear to the gurdwara, whether there is a bar.
- A way to reach youGuests can message you from the site, and it comes straight to your inbox.
Yours to arrange. Re-order the sections, hide the ones you do not want, and change the theme whenever you like. The site is built from your plan, so when you move an event, your guests see the new time without you touching a thing.
What it costs, and what happens to your data.
You are about to spend more money in one year than you ever have. The last thing you need is a planning tool with a catch in it, so here is ours in plain words.
Free to start
Build your whole wedding without paying anything, and without handing over a card. If we ever charge for something you are already using, you will hear it from us well before it happens.
No commission, ever
We never take a cut of what you pay a photographer, a caterer or a venue. That is a promise to them as much as to you, and it is why the price you are quoted is the price.
Your data stays yours
Your guest list is not a mailing list. We do not sell it, we do not let vendors browse it, and you can export or delete everything whenever you like.
Built in the UK
Pounds, UK suppliers, UK venues and UK law, including giving notice. Built by a small team here, for the way weddings actually work here.
Your wedding is not a template. Your plan should not be either.
Tell us your faith and your culture, and by the end of the first screen you will have real events on real days. Then change any of it: add an event, drop one, rename the lot, move a whole day. We give you the head start. You stay in charge of the wedding.
Free to start · No commission, ever · Built in the UK · Every faith, every culture, every couple